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Managing Partner at Love Song Founder at Barking Owl

Failure was a concept I learned about from a kid at school when I was about 6 or 7 years old. I was fascinated by this idea that if you didn’t succeed, you were a failure, and that made you bad. My Nana was always my closest confidant, we talked endlessly while cooking, she let me curse and say anything I wanted. Cooking in the kitchen with her was my favorite place in the world. I asked her about this concept of failure and she said, “Who the hell told you this?” I explained that I didn’t succeed in the game we were playing and therefore he said I was a failure. “I’m sorry to tell you this honey, but he is a fucking idiot.” “But I lost” “So what?” “So I failed” “Who cares?” “Well I care, I don’t want to be a failure” “How many times have we sat down to dinner and I tried something new and it was shit. I put it down the drain. A few right? Oh I’m sorry, should I never cook again? Am I a failure? No. I am not. I order a pizza and we get on with it. I’ll try again tomorrow, and if it doesn’t work out, so fucking what.“ The concept of failure left my mind as soon as it entered. Unfortunate for my grades at school, but great for everything else. I was married young for the first time. It didn’t work out. So what. I learned what I wanted, who I wanted to be and what I would accept. I couldn’t have a successful second marriage without the lessons of the first. My acting career didn’t work out. So what. I found a career path that was perfect for me and utilized every skillset I had, to incredible success. Those tools from The Groundlings Improv classes shaped how I would listen, never say no, respond and not react. Working for tips while I waited for my acting career to take off shaped how I would create an environment of incredible client service in my companies. People put so much pressure on themselves not to fail. It keeps us from running towards commitment, work and success. There is no need to worry about it. If we are doing this life thing right, we are always growing, changing and learning.  So try the thing that makes you uncomfortable, if it doesn’t work out, so fucking what, order a pizza and get on with it. 

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Kirkland Alexander Lynch

CEO at Barking Owl (Global 2024 Music & Sound Company of the Year)

3mo

Like Hov once said, "A lost isn't a lost, it's a lesson!" 💯

Mia Love

Client Services / Office Manager at Barking Owl

3mo

Yes yes YES 👏

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Colleen D'Amico

VP of Sales at AgencySource.TV

3mo

❤️🔥🍾✌️ordering a pizza as we speak, well done lovey!🔥🔥🔥

Anthony LoFranco

Senior Advertising and Content Producer - In-office or WFH savvy, vaccinated.

3mo

I love Nana. she’s right.

Royce Abrams

Special Education Attorney

3mo

You were so lucky to have such a wise Nana. Lots of ❤️

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Sarah Donnenberg

Executive Producer & Partner SLMBR PRTY

3mo

Oh wow, reading this was exactly what I needed this morning... New phrase in my life : "order a pizza and get on with it!"

Sylvia V.

Executive Producer | Creative Producer

3mo

Love this! Thanks for sharing your life’s lessons, Kelly 👏

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