How to seduce a stranger into buying, like their favorite celebrity on a mystical persuasion pill… “Seduce a stranger? Jason, did you swap running ads for being a dating coach?” Funny, but no. And even if I did, I wouldn’t sell you anything. I bet you’re doing well with those looks. (That was obviously a joke. I’ve never seen you.) I actually finished reading a meaty advertising book called Seducing Strangers. Behold… my favorite lines from the book. *** Most people don’t trust the stuff that’s coming out of television, the internet, or anywhere. But they all believe what they feel inside is true. That’s what the phrase “the customer is always right” is all about. So the money is in telling people they’re right and to keep on doing what they’re doing - preferably with your particular brand, product, or service. *** This basically means: Effective persuasion leverages a person’s inherent beliefs, it does not try to change or control them. And guess who we listen to more than our favorite celebrity? That’s right… People who tell us: “You’re right to think this way” Saying this will actually give you even more influence on your audience than their favorite celebrity. Why? We love the person who validates our belief and makes us feel good about having it. It makes them like you. And people buy from people they like. So ask yourself: How can I apply this new lesson to my next offer or marketing campaign? I know I will.
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