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Retired Amazon VP, LinkedIn Top Voice, now Teaching Leaders to become True Executives

At Amazon, Jeff Bezos told us to "not compromise for the sake of social cohesion." I saw him tolerate lengthy, exhausting arguments as a result. When I was a director, my VP constantly argued with Jeff and refused to back down. Their main, recurring argument was about an arcane economic model called the Prime Attribution Model (PAM). PAM mattered because it determined how the fee paid by Prime members was divided between business units. Prime Gaming (our business) was getting almost nothing, and we disagreed with how the model was designed. During one chapter of the debate between Jeff and my VP, the discussion went on for so long that the CFO stepped in and asked, "Jeff, do you want me to end this?" Basically, he was offering to scold my VP and shut him up so that Jeff would not have to be the bad guy. Jeff explicitly said no. The debate was drawn out and exhausting, but Jeff clearly showed his preference for a strong, lengthy debate instead of a comfortable, convenient compromise. In the end, we never got the PAM model changed. But, Jeff never shut us down. He continued to entertain the debate, and we kept revisiting it every time we had new evidence for a change. It was a years-long debate that never changed anything, but not shutting it down allowed every piece of each argument to be brought to light. The result was that a fully informed decision could be made, even if it was one that my VP and I disagreed with. Now, there is a point where rehashing old debates becomes impractical if it is simply perseverating on things that have already been decided. This is why we would reintroduce the debate when we had new evidence, not just whenever we felt like it. In between rounds of debate, we would “Disagree and Commit” (an Amazon Leadership Principle). We never felt like the PAM model was a good model, but we didn’t pout about it as we continuously failed to change it. We reintroduced our argument when we had something new to say, but we otherwise committed to its use. This is where Jeff’s advice of “Don’t compromise for the sake of social cohesion” and the LP of “Disagree and Commit” come together. The time for debate is when you have evidence; the time for commitment is when that evidence has been thoroughly heard, analyzed, and accepted or rejected. The result is a culture where good ideas are not missed because people feel like they can’t argue on their behalf and things also aren’t stuck in holding patterns when key stakeholders inevitably disagree. Readers- How has this worked in your organizations? Is debate encouraged or do people often compromise for the sake of cohesion?

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I'm conflicted on disagree and commit. It sounds good in theory & Jeff walked the walk. I saw different uses of it at Amazon where the debate ended abruptly and seemed inpatient without regard to beloved data. I saw a Steve Jobs video recently where he described a more compromising approach where a better idea often resulted. He mentioned that in severe cases of disagree that he simply fired the other person. That seems more like the Apple I remember ;). The problem with disagree and commit is the open wound that continues to fester. It seems like it did in your case too. While, you describe bringing it up to Jeff, the PAM model likely came up even more at a team level and while the team committed, they never really let it go. So many of the LPs were double edged swords and could be weaponized by either side. I believe it was more pure in the early days.

Garick Rye

Inclusion is the 🗝 to 🔓Diversity | People Over Profits | Productivity Proverbs | #StartWithPie

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A lot of people see “social cohesion” as inclusive and removing it as exclusive. What I read in this post sounds like inclusion to me. This also reminds me of how people can weaponize “Truth > Social Cohesion” to justify nasty behavior if proper context isn’t provided on how that tenet is to be lived out. This also reminds me of how much I’ve heard “let’s take this offline” in attempts to avoid intense, prolonged debate to maintain social cohesion. This gives me new meaning to true truth-seeking inclsion and something that may be more performative in nature. Thank you for sharing this.

Micah Sickel

MD, PHD, FAPA | Dual-trained Psychiatrist/Neuroscientist | USPHS Veteran | 14 years in Public-Health/Government/Military Health System | Consultant to CRO and small-size biotech | CNS & Psychedelics/Expert Tutor

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Ethan Evans Ethan, It sounds like a wonderful learning and sharing and debating environment. As someone who is a critical thinker, who thrives on discussion/debate, that would be an ideal work environment. It's interesting that there was someone who was willing to be the heavy, whose role would've been to stifle debate and ideas. Did that person get scolded or did they last long there?

Alan Stein

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This is clearly an amazing attribute of Jeff and the Amazon culture. Why do you think this ethos of debate and commit inconsistently occurs within Amazon, as I hear so often from Amazonians who are exiting its polarizing culture, Ethan?

Michael Shaw

Sr. Manager, BIE at Amazon

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Let new data birth new arguments.

Walter Peterscheck

Cloud Architect at Accenture Federal Services | PMP, CSM | MBA, MSIA | AWS Certified

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Ethan Evans very few companies / leaders operate this way....

Roger Mark Thompson💡

Founder & CEO, Success Systems | Become an executive in 6 months with our proven approach built custom for you.

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Ethan Evans this is awesome, and I really enjoyed your recent article in Business Insider.

Omar Halabieh

Tech Director @ Amazon Payment Services | #1 LinkedIn Arab World Creator in Management & Leadership | Follow me for Daily Insights on Leadership, Management and Career | Mentor

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Can be exhausting at times - yet helps ensure that we drive the right outcomes. Underpinning this is trust and assuming good intent from others. Thanks for sharing Ethan Evans

Daniel Lacaria

Project Manager at Lockheed Martin

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And when some of us have left Amazon and take some of the LPs into other businesses---out of the business character formation that occurred in us at Amazon if we took the LPs seriously (and if we were also studying leadership and being leaders before our time at Amazon)---it is such a different way of leadership, conversation, action, and debate, that it sometimes confuses or angers people even when deployed in a mollified fashion to suit a different business culture. But it is worth it, even at the cost of being misunderstood for a long time, because they are behaviors that lift up any business enterprise. I appreciate the time I spent at Amazon.

Richard Ford (李福德)

I Help People & Earn Trust | Ex AWS, Adobe, Versent

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Debate was always good at Amazon. As we scaled and hit the hyper period around 2014-2015 the explosion of services made it very hard to keep up and keep a deep understanding of everything. The idea was put forward to start to split us into teams or pods that focused on groups of services. There was severe backlash from everyone, it was managers vs reports. Arguments were strong, well meaning and all came from the same place...what would be best for the customer and our service quality? We all knew this. And this is why it was always respectful. This debate raged for a few months and I was not in favour of the change. I didn't want to admit to myself that I couldn't be an expert in everything. Others didn't like the idea of being told what to do. Management and those of us that did a lot of hiring, also knew that things were starting to go off like a nuclear chain reaction and the various fault lines and pains that we were experiencing due to the growth was only going to get worse. In the end, doing nothing wasn't an option either and in the absence of any other compelling data points everyone disagreed and committed and we started a huge restructuring. Customer experience as a result has clearly benefited 10 years on.

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