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There are 5 kinds of love languages that are universally accepted by all. We showed you the one called Gifts. Let's break down the remaining 4 with examples! -Physical Touch: Sarah longs for John's hugs and kisses, feeling comforted and loved by his touch. When John consistently avoids physical intimacy, Sarah feels rejected and unloved, leading to a sense of emotional distance between them. -Words of Affirmation: Mark thrives on Emily's verbal appreciation and encouragement, finding validation in her words. Yet, Emily rarely expresses her feelings verbally, causing Mark to feel undervalued and insecure in their relationship, leading to a gradual erosion of his self-esteem. -Acts of Service: David tirelessly performs tasks to make Lisa's life easier, seeking to demonstrate his love through his actions. However, Lisa rarely reciprocates these acts, leaving David feeling unappreciated and taken for granted, causing resentment to build over time. -Quality Time: Alex cherishes the moments spent with Maya, finding solace and connection in their shared experiences. Yet, Maya's constant busyness and distraction prevent them from having meaningful time together, leaving Alex feeling neglected and unimportant in their relationship, leading to a sense of loneliness despite being physically present. So, which of these could you related to? Drop a comment below and let me know! Follow, like, and share for more content! #icanbme #gargidasgupta #CoupleGoals #RelationshipGoals #LoveWins #FunnyCouples #CouplesHumor #RelationshipHumor #LoveLaughs #TrendingCouples #InstaRelationship #RealLove #HealthyRelationships #HilariousCouples #AuthenticLove #LaughTogether #Soulmates #BFFsInLove #LifeWithYou #LoveAndLaughs #CouplesConnection #BondingMoments

In the quiet moments when no one is watching, you meet the unscripted version of yourself. It's in these private spaces that authenticity unfurls, revealing the essence of who you truly are. No audience to impress, no societal expectations to meet – just the unfiltered you, free from external judgments. It's in solitude that your genuine thoughts, feelings, and actions take centre stage. This unguarded version is the compass of your true character. The books you read when no one is keeping a tally, the music that moves you when there's no one to impress, the laughter that bubbles up when you’re alone – these moments paint an unadulterated portrait. Embrace this truth: who you are when no one is watching is the canvas of your authenticity. It's a testament to your values, passions, and intrinsic nature. In this sacred space, introspection thrives, and self-discovery blossoms. So, take a moment to cherish the unobserved you – the unfiltered laughter, the quiet introspection, the unspoken dreams. For in these moments, authenticity breathes, and you stand unapologetically as the author of your genuine self. In the dance between solitude and self, you sculpt the masterpiece of your true identity. Embrace it. Celebrate it. Because who you are when no one is watching is, undeniably, who you really are. 💫 #AuthenticSelf #UnfilteredYou #SelfDiscoveryJourney

Let Them Judge You: Embrace Your Authenticity In a world where opinions are abundant and often misguided, it's easy to feel weighed down by the judgments of others. But remember this: their opinions are not your problem. ✅ Let them judge you, misunderstand you, and even gossip about you. Their words reflect their perspectives, not your truth. ✅ Stay kind, stay committed to love, and above all, stay true to your authentic self. No matter what they say or do, never doubt your worth or the beauty of the truth you hold within. ✅ Keep moving forward with grace and resilience. Let your smile be the answer to those who question your path. After all, your value is not defined by others but by your unwavering belief in who you are. #Authenticity #SelfWorth #Resilience #StayTrue #KindnessMatters

Authenticity calling 📣 Who are we in this society? All the experiences I’ve lived over the past two years have led me directly to the person I am today—the authentic "me," and what a gift that is! The most important thing I’ve learned from these two years of introspection is the power of being yourself and freeing yourself from judgment & the famous « I need to ». What does being authentic really mean? Being authentic means being true and aligned with who you are—your values, your thoughts, and your actions. Truly feeling yourself is freedom, but sometimes, to reach and experience that state, you need to invest in yourself and take some time off. For a long time, I hesitated to start posting and sharing on LinkedIn, but now I’m confident that the experiences and life lessons I’ve gathered can help others. Even if one post helps just one person, I’ve won. My life mantra: Life is a game. Every day, we face life’s challenges. Choose to win. Don’t let others choose the game you should play in life. Play your own game. Now, it’s your turn… Are you living with full authenticity? Take a few minutes to reflect on this question, write down your thoughts, and see if you need to make any changes to fully embrace the game of freedom and authenticity. #It’sAllAboutYourself.

Embracing My Journey: The Story Behind the Name Shadow Discover the powerful story behind my name, Shadow, given to me by friends long before fame. This video explores ancient Kemetic beliefs and the significance of identity in personal growth and connections. Join me on this journey of understanding and self-discovery! #NameOrigin #IdentityJourney #KemeticWisdom #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery #FameStory #AncientBeliefs #Friendship #Inspiration #MyStory

Before you buy another bouquet of flowers, think twice. If you are solid in your identity... If you conduct yourself in joy and confidence most of the time around your wife... If you are pursuing other things in your life besides just your wife’s attention... [THREAD] 👇 If she misses you when you are gone... If, when you show affection, you’re not waiting around to see if she’ll allow for a deep romantic moment... Then go ahead and buy her flowers. 👇 But if you don’t fit those above descriptors, then flowers are only going to AT BEST be a bandaid on a cannonball wound. At worst, they’ll make the wound gape even bigger. Flowers and romance are not the answer when a man’s wife doesn’t respect or even like him. 👇 (Unless of course that man has been a distant arrogant jerk who never thinks about his wife). But if a man has been racking his brain for any and every way to get his wife to like him again. If he’s been trying to make her happy and serve her hand and foot... Then no, flowers are not the answer. You becoming a Man of Identity, Principle, and Mission...THAT’S the answer.

This one thought changed everything for me... Embracing our authentic selves is a revolutionary act, especially when we’re often told to put on a brave face and hide our true emotions. I’ve found that strength comes from acknowledging our feelings—whether they’re joy, sadness, fear, or excitement without trying to escape them or fit into someone else’s mold. When we allow ourselves to be fully present and honest with our emotions, we not only grow stronger, but we connect more deeply with others. This authenticity fosters genuine relationships and builds trust, both personally and professionally. How do you stay true to your feelings in challenging situations?

Authenticity Over Appearance_ 🙏 Some people show off their spiritual side by visiting temples and showcasing their devotion, but fail to demonstrate basic human values like kindness and empathy. 🤔 On the other hand, individuals who may not project a spiritual image, like those who enjoy a drink, might surprisingly exhibit better ethics and manners, and even show more compassion towards those in need. 🍻 Let's remember that true character is not about projecting a pious image, but about cultivating empathy, kindness, and compassion. ❤️ Authenticity matters more than appearance. Let's focus on building genuine relationships and helping those in need, without seeking recognition or validation. 🌎 As the saying goes: "The true measure of a person's character is not in their words, but in their actions." 💪 #AuthenticityMatters #KindnessOverAppearance #EmpathyInAction #TrueCharacter #LeadershipLessons #PersonalGrowth 💫

Silence can’t never be misquoted. -Jefferson Fisher Celebration Friday on this profile!! 🎉 And today I would like to make a special mention to all of us, imperfect human beings, but capable of using silence and listening skills effectively. Those applying the ability to be present and resisting the impulse to respond, explain, argue, clarify, defend, or preparing themselves to returning a statement during all conversations… All the people who are simply selective and aware of avoiding judgment. Showing openness and being available without a verbal exchange. When you have the ability to be silent and open to listening, it's like the video illustrates. You're just walking through the storytelling scenario and imagining what's happening. Silence and listening lead to the whole process of understanding the other's world through lenses with a more compassionate approach. Be aware that silence is necessary, and it does not always mean avoidance, disconnection, punishment or disrespect. Silence and listening are a high-level skills requiring planning either to pay attention, or planning to ignore depending on what is happening at the moment. They are needed skills for our sanity and our peace of mind. . . . . . #staypresent #silence #awareness #listeningskills #celebrations #therapy #fridaythe13th #femininity #thoughtfortheday Video by david_j_design 🌹

Simple answer; NO! 🔍 Exploration of emotions: Understanding and sharing deep feelings and vulnerabilities. 🤝 Building trust: Openness, honesty, and vulnerability foster emotional intimacy. 🔥 Passionate connection: Physical affection, desire, and sexual compatibility. 🗣️ Effective communication: Listening, empathy, and validation of each other's experiences. 🧩 Shared experiences: Creating memories and moments that strengthen emotional bonds. 💑 Partnership and teamwork: Supporting each other through challenges and triumphs. 💖 Unconditional love: Acceptance, appreciation, and commitment to each other's well-being. Follow, like, and share for more content! #icanbme #gargidasgupta #CoupleGoals #RelationshipGoals #LoveWins #FunnyCouples #CouplesHumor #RelationshipHumor #LoveLaughs #TrendingCouples #InstaRelationship #RealLove #HealthyRelationships #HilariousCouples #AuthenticLove #LaughTogether #Soulmates #BFFsInLove #LifeWithYou #LoveAndLaughs #CouplesConnection #BondingMoments #breakup #heartbreak