Do you ever sit in a meeting and think “seriously, just make a decision” or wait on a call while the other stakeholders wander in, unaided by a ‘diary’, “clock” or anything approximating a schedule? Do you watch your colleagues debating and wonder how their relationship can tolerate such rudeness? If you are lucky enough to work in a culturally, racially diverse company, you should read this. I’ve been working internationally for 30 years, adapting to others behaviour and this book delivered multiple surprises. And regrets …. for all of my colleagues, past and present - I can only apologise for my “bull-at-a-gate” approach!
My favourite, having been brought up in Germany is in England you Must arrive at least 10 mins after the dinner party start time (to give the hosts last minute breathing space). In Germany, if you’re not at the door at the exact time, 1 minute after they are scouring the street for you, assuming you’re lost 😂
Great callout, Cheryl! When we lately had the lecture with Erin Meyer, I also reflected some conversations of the past that could‘ve went better, by being more aware of these differences. While we are all indiviuals, nobody can flee from the „embossing“ through cultural differences. E.g. Understanding subtle messages „between the lines“ is for germans definitely a learning…I personally think the map is a bit rough, as there are stronger differences within the countries, driven by globalisation, migration. But the mental model is very valuable, in the professional as well as in the personal context
I can empathise with you!
Growing up and getting older (for me) has meant realizing not everyone grew up the way I did or takes the same approach to everything. Sounds basic but I sometimes need reminders that different doesn’t mean wrong. I’ll have to pick up this book.
I loved this book made me understand the teams I work with so much better
It is a great book. I read it some years ago, and I use it as an example when I teach internationalization. Doing business internationally and working in a multi-country organization increases the opportunity for misunderstanding to a multidimensional level.
That book is super interesting (was a recommended read to me by Andrea) however there's a healthy level of self awareness in bias that is required to not take the content and applying broad brushing approaches.
I love this book so much. One of the best.
Cheryl Clifford, how fascinating that cultural diversity shapes our meeting dynamics. Have you noticed how different backgrounds bring unique perspectives to time management? #WorkplaceCulture
Director & Founder of UCentric | MBA Qualified, International Recruitment Leader, Advisor, Board Member
4hDefinitely one of the best leadership books I’ve ever read!