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Subconscious blocks to receiving LOVE 💔 Feel they are too unworthy to receive love 💔 Think they are a burden and too much effort 💔 Believe they are selfish for wanting love and feel shame for asking 💔 See themselves as weak if they need support or care from others 💔 Assume they will be abandoned if they ask for love or show emotions 💔 Scared they don't deserve it and aren't good enough Did you know that love blocks can get in the way of you forming healthy relationships. These blocks often start in early in childhood and from traumatic experiences that created feelings of uncertainty and fear from experiences like abuse or abandonment. Sometimes blocking love makes us feel like we are protecting our heart, and we will be safe from hurt and painful emotions. Our old beliefs suppress our true feelings and then we end up feeling unworthy, undeserving and weak. We start create our own list of what love is and isn't, and then we start living by those self-imposed beliefs and then holding others that we meet to that expectation. When we hide from love, we are the ones actually rejecting it. In reality, we are not allowing ourselves the capacity to love or have the love we deserve. When we can uncover those limiting beliefs that we created, we can begin to open up and understand our triggers and needs. Once we become more aware, we can identify our feelings, and then express them and share with others in a safe way, giving ourselves permission to receive love. Connect back with your heart. In order to receive love from others, you must first be able to receive love from yourself. What ways to you hold yourself back from receiving love? #mentalhealth #limitingbeliefs #psychotherapistflorida #relationships

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WE LIE TO OURSELVES about how attractive, capable, intelligent we are. excerpted from https://lnkd.in/ghf-VW5H What it’s like” is: it’s like gaining enormous, terrifying clarity. The moment when you realize the right path, the yes or no answer, the end of the debate. Clarity might sound great— don’t we all want clarity? But clarity is cruel, too. We’re fond of illusions, and we’re fond of fictions, which are themselves a sort of illusion. We lie to ourselves about how attractive, capable, intelligent we are. Staring into the face of what matters means reconciling with all the time you spent focusing on what didn’t. And it turns out, that was a lot of time. Why was I watching TV? Browsing Instagram? Holding my phone instead of a person? Fighting the silly fights? Prosecuting pointless arguments? Clarity shows that love matters, as does recognizing love, so that you can nurture it and appreciate it. Romantic love matters, but also friendship love. And yet so many of our daily behaviors and practices are antithetical to these clear, high-level principles.

Have you ever felt the sting of love twisted into something painful? 💔 Sometimes, what appears to be affection can mask more complex emotions, leaving us feeling confused and drained. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 beautifully describes love as patient, kind, and devoid of envy. Yet, what happens when love becomes a tool for manipulation rather than a source of support? Here are some signs you might be experiencing love that's on shaky ground: - **Constantly feeling guilty or apologizing** for things that seem minor? - **Walking on eggshells**, worried about how your partner will react? - **Being told you’re too sensitive** when expressing discomfort? These subtle behaviors can shift the dynamics of a relationship, creating an imbalance that leaves you questioning your worth. Recognizing these feelings is the first step toward reclaiming your peace and ensuring that love aligns with what we know it should be: nurturing and uplifting. ❤️ If this resonates with you or someone you know, share your thoughts in the comments. Let’s open up the dialogue around what true love looks like! You never know who might need to hear this today. Spread awareness and support—share this with someone who needs to see it. #LoveGod #Loveothers #fightfortheirfreedom

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Healing From Recognising, We Are The Love We Seek At times, when all too often a child experiences neglect from a parent due to the parent's emotional and physical struggles, the child may develop a longing to seek validation for their actions in the world, hoping to fill the love deficit from childhood. This may lead to a pattern of energetic constriction within the mind and body that lays dormant until triggered, usually by witnessing what the mind and body perceive as potential sources of love. Unfortunately, this pursuit of love from external sources often proves fruitless, leaving the inner child perpetually discontent and yearning. Additionally, the mind tends to generate numerous self-critical thoughts to rationalise this perceived lack of love from the environment. Recognising one's inherent completeness as the whole and complete Loving Awareness is the powerful, safe context that allows for a gentle exploration of these painful memory patterns of the inner child, sometimes with the support of another compassionate mind, eventually leading to their dissolution like ice melts in water. Naturally, new endeavours centred around sharing love emerge rather than seeking it. Love Freyja #oneness #nonduality #consciousleadership #consciousparenting #consciousliving #integrativehealth

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Have you ever experienced that overwhelming rush of affection from someone, only to later feel suffocated by their intensity? 🤔 **Love-bombing** can often feel like a dream come true at first—endless compliments, constant attention, and grand romantic gestures. But what happens when this love starts to feel more like a chain than a comfort? Sometimes, these early stages of a relationship can blind us to some subtle signs, like: - Feeling emotionally drained despite the sweet words. - Receiving gifts or affection with strings attached. - Constantly apologizing for not meeting someone's expectations. - Noticing that your needs or feelings come second to someone else's. Recognizing these behaviors early on is so important. It could be a sign of a deeper issue where love turns into control. **You deserve to feel accepted for who you are, not just who someone else wants you to be.** Take a moment to reflect on your experiences. Have you ever felt overwhelmed by someone else's affection? Remember, seeking a healthy dynamic built on mutual respect and trust is vital for your emotional well-being. ❤️ **Share your story—we’re here to listen.** This might help someone you care about—share it with them! Let's spread awareness and support one another. #LoveGod #Loveothers #fightfortheirfreedom

"True love is not about perfection; it’s about growth and understanding." 🌹 For busy professionals, both men and women, balancing love and work can often feel like a constant struggle. Do you find yourself repeating the same patterns, attracting partners who don’t appreciate you, or struggling with emotional baggage from past relationships? 💔 The good news is that healing and transformation are within reach. By shifting your mindset and breaking old patterns, you can attract healthy, loving relationships that empower you. 🌸 I help professionals like you stop attracting emotionally unavailable partners and heal from past relationship wounds, so you can find the love you truly deserve. 💖 If you're tired of the same relationship struggles and ready to rewrite your love story, let's connect! Book a Clarity Call today and take the first step toward the love life you've been waiting for. 💌 https://lnkd.in/ek2ZrcTQ #LoveHealing #RelationshipBreakthrough #AttractHealthyLove