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Have you ever felt like no matter what you do, it’s never enough? You’re leading a team. Pouring your heart and soul into the job. Trying to inspire and empower others. But instead of gratitude, you’re met with constant backlash. Harsh criticisms. It's like everything you do is under a microscope. You can’t seem to catch a break. You start to wonder. "Why am I doing this? " "Is it even worth it?" The negative feedback stings more than you’d like to admit. But the truth is.... Real leadership isn’t about avoiding the fire. It’s about enduring it and coming out stronger on the other side. Imagine this. You’re in a meeting. And you're presenting a new initiative that you believe will transform the team's performance. You’ve spent countless nights perfecting every detail. But as soon as you finish, the room erupts in criticism. People doubt your intentions. Question your competence. Some even outright dismiss your ideas. It feels like a punch to the gut. It’s tempting to throw in the towel. But you don’t. Instead, you listen. You sift through the harsh words. To find the constructive feedback. You acknowledge the points that have merit. And you stand firm on the values and vision you know are right. You realize that this resistance is part of the process. It's through these trials that your resolve is tested and your leadership sharpened. At home, it’s no different. Your partner sees the toll it’s taking on you and worries. The late nights. The stress. It’s all consuming. But they also see the fire in your eyes. The passion you have for making a difference. They remind you why you started this journey in the first place. Yes, the criticism hurts. It’s exhausting. But each challenge, Each harsh word, is like a forge refining your spirit. It’s in these difficult moments that you find your true strength. That you learn to lead with both resilience and empathy. You start to see that the backlash isn’t just noise. It’s feedback that can guide you. That can help you grow if you just let it. You realize that being a leader means enduring the fire. Not just for yourself. But for those you want to empower. It’s about showing them that despite everything, you can rise above. You become a living proof that strength isn’t about never falling. It’s about rising every time you do. Face the heat. It's your forge. Sometimes you need to break down to make a breakthrough. Let your light shine even brighter because of the fire you've endured. #leadership #personaljourney #growth #whatyourstory

How to Handle Criticism for Personal Growth Criticism can sting, but when approached the right way, it becomes a stepping stone to personal and professional growth. Here are some strategies I’ve found effective: Shift Your Perspective Criticism isn’t always an attack; often, it’s an opportunity. Instead of reacting defensively, ask yourself, "What can I learn from this?" Listen Without Interrupting Sometimes, our first instinct is to explain or defend ourselves. Pause. Truly listen to the feedback—it might surprise you how much clarity it brings. Separate the Message from the Delivery Feedback may not always come in the most constructive way. Focus on the content rather than the tone. Extract the insights that can help you improve. Ask Questions If the criticism is vague, ask for specifics. For example: "Can you share an example of what you mean?" This shows maturity and a willingness to improve. Reflect and Decide Not all criticism is valid or helpful. Reflect on the feedback, and decide whether it aligns with your goals. If it does, act on it. If not, let it go. Thank the Critic Whether the feedback was easy to hear or not, expressing gratitude can shift the dynamic and reinforce your growth mindset. Remember, the goal isn’t to avoid criticism but to use it as fuel for improvement. When you embrace feedback with humility and resilience, you not only grow stronger but also gain the respect of those around you. How do you handle criticism? Let’s discuss in the comments! #GrowthMindset #PersonalDevelopment #Feedback

When individuals attribute their own mistakes and failures to someone else, it reveals a lack of accountability and personal responsibility. This tendency to shift blame onto others can stem from fear, insecurity, or an inability to confront one's own shortcomings. By deflecting ownership of their errors, they avoid confronting the uncomfortable truth about themselves and the necessary steps to improve. This behavior not only hinders personal growth but also erodes trust and credibility with others, who may view them as unreliable or dishonest. Moreover, attributing one's mistakes to others can create a toxic dynamic, where blame replaces constructive feedback, and stagnation replaces progress. By acknowledging and learning from our own mistakes, we can take the first step towards genuine growth, self-awareness, and improved relationships.#growth#developmeny#jobs#immigration#internationalorganisationforimmigrants

There was a time when failure felt like the end of the world. If something didn’t work out—whether it was a project, a decision, or even a conversation—I’d internalize it. It wasn’t just “this didn’t work,” it was “𝘐’𝘮 not good enough.” I’d replay the situation over and over, focusing on all the things I 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 have done differently. The worst part? It stopped me from trying again.  Here’s the shift that changed everything: I stopped seeing failure as 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘭 and started seeing it as 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘥𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬. These days, I look at failure differently. Instead of a stop sign, it feels like a detour—sometimes uncomfortable, but often leading me somewhere better. When I let go of the pressure to get it “right” the first time, I realised that failure is really just life’s way of saying, “𝘕𝘰𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘢𝘺—𝘵𝘳𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳.” This shift didn’t happen overnight (and honestly, it’s still a work in progress). But here’s what’s helped me reframe failure:  1️⃣ 𝗥𝗲𝗳𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: Instead of jumping to self-criticism, I pause and ask, “What went wrong here?” Was it the strategy, timing, or maybe my communication?   2️⃣ 𝗖𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗷𝘂𝗱𝗴𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁: Failure isn’t a reflection of my worth—it’s an opportunity to learn. I try to ask, “What’s this experience trying to teach me?”   3️⃣ 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲: The hardest, but most powerful step. Instead of avoiding similar situations, I take what I’ve learned and use it to try again—with more clarity, confidence, and insight.  What’s funny is that some of my biggest “failures” have turned into my greatest lessons. The hiring mistakes I made helped me to trust my intuition and take faster action. The decision I agonised over but got wrong helped me trust my instincts next time. And those tough conversations? They pushed me to improve how I communicate and lead.  Here’s the truth: If you’re not failing, you’re probably not growing. It’s not about avoiding mistakes—it’s about how we respond to them.  What’s your relationship with failure? Do you see it as feedback, or something else? I’d love to hear how you’ve reframed failure in your life—let’s keep this conversation going! 👇  P.S. Repost to change someone's life ♻️ #FeedbackNotFailure #Failure #Leadership #ConsciousLeadership #Awareness #GrowthMindset #SuccessPrinciples

"If I say anything rude/sexist/racist, I totally don't mean it! Please call me out if I do so."   Sounds good right? I wouldn't say that unless I really wanted to get feedback, so this means I am introspective, humble, and ready to grow, right?   Wrong.   This is a cop out. It places the responsibility for my growth on everyone else, most notably on those minorities that feel victimized by my statements. If I were truly introspective, humble, and ready to grow, I would be working on my biases by myself. Taking responsibility. I would not need to say this, because I accept that I am on a life-long journey and will make mistakes, and I own them.   By warning you beforehand, I have created a moral license for me to say such things. Because I will also show how sorry and humble I am when I do say such things, within this frame of safety I have created. Aren't I great?   Note that I created that frame of safety without involving anyone else, or even asking anyone else for their opinion. I just stated that this is the frame within which we will operate today and you must accept it.   And if you don't accept it, and then get angry at me for saying something, and if you don't accept my apology for it, then you are outside the frame we agreed upon (but really only I created), and I can be outraged about that, because I warned you.   It frees me from responsibility. It allows me to stop thinking about being a better person and just talk and act. It's easy for me. It allows me to be lazy.   It implies that intent is the only thing that matters. If I don't mean it, you shouldn't feel bad about what I said.   If you ever feel the need to say this, I urge you to do two things: 1. Don't say it. 2. Notice that impulse and consider where it comes from. Use that opportunity for some real growth.

You know the feeling: you just got some constructive criticism you weren’t expecting in your performance review. You begin to tighten up a little, your heart rate spikes. You start thinking about why they are wrong and get defensive. What if I told you it didn’t have to be that way? You can get valuable advice to grow professionally and personally, without all the negative emotions. The problem with constructive criticism is that it is passive and steals control away from you. When someone gives you constructive criticism, they share an opinion that helped them grow and something they think will help you. You may not want to grow in the same way, leading to a defensive response. If someone says, “You should be more agreeable” and you don’t think your agreeableness is a problem, conflict arises. Constructive criticism can be useful in revealing other people’s opinions of you, but to grow intentionally, we want something else. The solution is solicited feedback. When you solicit feedback, you take an active role in your development. You tell the world, “This is how I want to grow.” Soliciting feedback looks like you going to the most agreeable person you know and saying, “Hey, I want to be a more agreeable person, how did you become so agreeable and what can I do to improve my agreeableness?” Solicited feedback gives you the freedom to grow the way you want. Take control of your growth by replacing constructive criticism with solicited feedback. You’ll be happier for it.

Your ego is your biggest obstacle to growth—feedback isn’t the enemy, your defensiveness is. Let’s be real: receiving feedback about your work can be hard. Your ego jumps in, ready to defend every decision, every action. It’s natural. But if you want to grow as a leader, you have to quiet that voice and really listen. The tricky part? Not all feedback is useful. Some of it’s gold—insights that can drive real improvement. Some of it, though, just doesn’t apply. The key is learning to filter through what’s constructive and what’s not. Next time you get feedback, ask yourself: What can I take from this to get better? Then, let the rest go. It’s not easy, but it’s how we improve, one step at a time. I struggled with feedback for many years. I struggled to ask because I knew the feedback would ultimately become an ego hit. I would push back against it, wanting to defend my actions. A few years ago, I made a mindset shift. Instead of taking it personally, I began to consider it from a more spiritual perspective. Sorry to go woo-woo on you, but it works. When I asked for feedback from a client, I didn’t think they were criticizing me. I thought of them criticizing someone else. Michael Singer likes to call ourselves the witness. We are witnessing what we are doing. I know this is confusing. It’s hard to separate the soul from the body, but bear with me. You look in the mirror, and you are in there. You don’t age. Your soul doesn’t age. Do you remember when you were a young kid and you looked at yourself in the mirror? Now, when you look, you see your older self, but you don’t feel different. You are the witness. You aren’t the person who is being criticized. You are only witnessing the person being criticized. I know it sounds weird, but next time, you will be asking for feedback. Think of yourself as just the actor in a play. The actor is getting feedback, but the witness is just watching what is happening. It’s almost an out-of-body experience. You don’t take it personally because it’s only feedback that you are witnessing and can help the character (your body and mind) that you (soul/witness) helped create and has an ego. Just think of it as helping your body and mind become happier. This didn’t happen overnight for me. It takes practice. Your character will still get his ego bruised. Your character will want to throw a tantrum, but as the witness, you can talk to this character. Let him know that it’s just feedback to learn from. The more you practice, the more helpful it becomes. Learn how you can get valuable feedback to grow your career and business. Link in the comment below.

In the journey of professional and personal growth, encountering criticism is inevitable. However, the key to success lies in understanding that the opinions of critics do not define your worth or your capabilities. 🛡️ 𝗨𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗥𝗼𝗹𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗖𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗺: Criticism, especially the constructive kind, can be a valuable tool for growth. It provides a different perspective and can highlight areas for improvement. However, it's crucial to distinguish between constructive feedback and mere criticism that serves no purpose other than to discourage. 🚫 𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗖𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗰𝘀 𝗗𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗖𝗼𝘂𝗻𝘁: Critics often judge based on their perceptions, biases, or even their insecurities. Their opinions are more a reflection of their perspective than an objective assessment of your abilities. Therefore, giving undue importance to every criticism can hinder your confidence and growth. 💡 𝗙𝗼𝗰𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗻 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀: Instead of being swayed by every critical comment, focus on feedback that helps you grow. Surround yourself with people who support and challenge you constructively. Remember, the most significant feedback often comes from those who genuinely care about your development. 👊 𝗘𝗺𝗯𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆: Every professional path is unique, marked by its set of challenges and triumphs. Embrace your journey, learn from your experiences, and remember that your value is not diminished by someone's inability to see your worth. #ProfessionalGrowth #OvercomingCriticism #PersonalDevelopment 🌱🚀✨

Have you ever received feedback about yourself that made you pause and reflect? Recently, two separate individuals told me something that initially caught me off guard: they described me as "calm". It made me stop and reassess my own perception of myself. I've always seen myself as assertive, perhaps even outspoken at times, and the idea of being identified as a calm person didn't immediately align with my self-image. But as I pondered on it, I realised that these qualities aren't mutually exclusive. It dawned on me that being assertive and opinionated doesn't preclude me from also embodying a sense of calmness. It's interesting how our self-perceptions can sometimes be at odds with how others see us. It got me thinking about the journey of personal growth and evolution. Perhaps, as we navigate through life's experiences and interactions, we naturally evolve and acquire new qualities. Maybe it's a sign of maturity or simply a result of becoming more attuned to ourselves and others. This experience served as a reminder that we're constantly evolving, and not put a limit on my own transformation and growth. When committed to growth, you won't be the same person you were some years ago and only become aware of the changes when someone shares with us, what they see. Sometimes, the attributes we aspire to possess and we admire in others, are already within us or are now within us because we've worked on becoming that. So, I'm curious: What has surprised you about yourself based on feedback from others? Let's start a conversation and explore the journey of self-discovery together. #personalgrowth #transformation #personaldevelopment #selfdiscovery #authenticity