What an amazing event this week, hosted by Dori Wittman, co-chair of the North County Human Resource San Diego. Our panel moderator, Hema Crockett, co-founder of Gig Talent, asked the panelists to open our discussion on #WorkplaceIncivility by answering this question: “ If you could create a new workplace etiquette rule that everyone had to follow, what would it be, and why?” My response was this: encouraging people to lead with curiosity instead of assumptions. Right now, there are any number of issues we are asked to consider and discuss that will have a profound impact on our society: politics, #DEI, wars. What we are experiencing and will continue to struggle with for the foreseeable future is what can be considered collectively as a “defining moment.” And we are collectively experiencing a point in our lives when we are urged to make a pivotal decision that has the potential to fundamentally change how we interact as a society. My concern is that we fail to take a beat, collect ourselves, and prioritize understanding others first, rather than insisting on being understood. This is the 5th habit – seek first to understand, then to be understood -- from the classic book by Dr. Stephen R. Covey titled, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Leaders.” Workplace incivility can be addressed by understanding someone else’s perspective in a way that will result in civil discourse, with the option to disagree without being disagreeable. If you’re not quite sure how to go about this, I encourage you to join me for an insightful series of Real Conversation from the C-suite discussions with Ms. Terri D. Wilson, founder and CEO of Doing HR Differently. The topic for October will be Discussing Hot Topics Without Torching Relationships and we’ll offer 4 practical tips that you can use immediately. Please join us and invite your friends! Dori Wittman Molly Wood, SPHR, MAOL Hema Crockett Jamie Jacobs Jenna Leyton-Jones Victoria DeFalco Terri D. Wilson Michelle Beauchamp Deena C. Brown, Terry Byrd Pitt MBA, MS Scharrell Jackson Dr. Tana M. Session #NCHRSD #GigTalent #HotTopics #ValueRelationships #DrAnita #KeepItReal #HumanResources #NCHR
Way to go Dr. Anita and I loved your post about leading with curiosity! You are just the best.
Love this
You did an amazing job, Anita! And, we all know what they say when people make assumptions…😂
Sounds like a great conversation Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.! I have always believed and encouraged my teams to assume good intent. That one shift in perception can make all the difference!
Thanks for sharing!
Releasing the Power of People Through Workplace Consulting | Leadership Coaching | Team Collaboration
2moA timely and much needed conversation!. It was only a hour, but in that short time, successfully raised the awareness of actions each of us can take to keep our workplaces respectful, productive and thriving. Don’t wait for someone else to take the first step. Change begins when each of us is intentional about the actions we take, value the relationship and know what is important in that moment, rise above all the noise and distractions, and be a voice that facilitates discussion, not debate. We have the workplace behaviors we allow.