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It's my 24th birthday so here is 24 things I have learned in my life. 1. Find the positivity in everything. (there is always something) 2. Be patient. (with people, work, driving, everything) 3. Take time for yourself. (relax a bit) 4. Find a religion or something above you to believe in. 5. Believe in yourself too! (you are capable) 6. Be kind. (it's not hard to do) 7. Love/Trust your partner. 8. Love your friends and family. (get over the small things, its not worth it) 9. Accept that not everything will always be the ideal situation. (sun doesn't shine everyday) 10. Listen more than you speak. (you will learn a lot) 11. Buy that thing you want. (why not? work some extra hours to pay it off) 12. Try not to judge others (nobody likes to be on the receiving end of that) 13. Be honest. (that will take you further with others and yourself than anything else) 14. Have pride in things you do. (but not too prideful) 15. Better yourself everyday (physically, mentally or emotionally) 16. Don't place blame everywhere but yourself. (take ownership) 17. Be decent. (also not hard to do) 18. Find something you love to do. (hobbies are important) 19. Enjoy being young (you will miss things like high school and college) 20. Attend things. (weddings, funerals, gatherings, family things, etc. It makes a difference to people) 21. Put effort into everything you do (why not?) 22. Give back to others (money, time, etc. even if its just a tiny amount) 23. Be empathetic. (this is one thing that has helped me more than anything) 24. Love yourself.

Half of the Year 2024 is done. We are now in the second half of the Year. 1 First I appreciate God for grace to this point. It's His favour and mercy that has kept us to this end 2. Whatever is past is past. I'm glad for what I achieved in that first season. But I also acknowledge the failures and short comings in the same period. 3. Now this is a great chance to learn new things, unlearn some old unproductive things, invent, reinvent, explore and work hard. Time and chance is given to all of us. Let's take great opportunities God gives us. 4. Life is for the living. Enjoy life. Take it easy. Not many care. Live it. Persue your high calling. Endure hardship . Cross the hurdles set before you. 5. Eat good food. Home food is the best. A healthy you is a great asset to yourself. 6. Read good stuff. Listen to great people out here. 7. Rest adequately. Your body is not a machine. It needs rest . For your mind , body and soul. 8. Reflect and meditate. Have good conversation with yourself and the Higher Being. There's more to what we see in the physical world. 9. Love and be loved. Nurture good and healthy relationships. We are relational beings. That's our inherent nature.

Hey Colleagues, In the past years, March 27 came with my hopes soaring high and my expectations as grand as a whale. You might have wondered which was stronger, my creativity or my bones. My pride overflowed, and my ideas were boastful. Boom! It felt as though my pillow had been swapped out as my "New Year, New Month, New Magic" theme began to seem like an illusion. While trying to stay strong, my true love didn’t send me 5 gold rings or plastic flowers. Presently, the reality hit me hard when my country’s currency seemed like a joke, and I dared not laugh at it. But don’t pity me. Despite everything seemingly going against my plans, I have chosen to move forward. How have you been, friends? Perhaps, like me, the real work for us in this March is to add a little more faith and move forward together. Make up your mind right now, and let nothing scare you. I understand there are levels of anxiety, getting stuck, and feeling lost. No matter what you feel or how you feel it, add a little faith. What currently feels bigger than you? What is significant enough to drain and overwhelm you physically, mentally, and emotionally? What if we all agreed to take a deep breath on the 27th of this month? What if we chose to breathe in faith? Let nothing shake you —whether the plans and objectives from the past weeks, months, or years didn’t make it from the vision room. Whatever the plan may be (as simple as making your bed), you are in charge this March. So, go ahead and re-strategize your plans. What feels true to you? What ignites your passion? Now, claim them as you move forward this March. Happy New Month! Now, what is special about March 27? Well, let's say it's my birth day. Turn your calendar alarm to 27, and let's make it a joyous day. Acquire lands, secure properties, because you might be touched to give me a gift. It's not a big deal because you can start small and scale up higher as you go. Remember, you can pay in installment for our Sapphire Courts and Emerald Garden City estates. Contact/WhatsApp: 08165250178 to get started.

As my son’s 11th birthday is coming up, here are 11 pieces of advice for him that I hope would resonate with you, too: 1. There’s a way out of every problem. You must be able to know when it’s time to ask someone for help. 2. Even the worst day cannot last more than 24 hours. 3. Advertising is not for real. No product will make one’s life perfect or guarantee happiness. The only one who can decide on what makes you happy is YOU. 4. Every word we speak affects others. With unkind words, less is more. With uplifting words, more is more. 5. You’re writing your own story every day. How do you want to be remembered? 6. Hand-write thank you notes. This gesture means you appreciate the person enough to sit down and write. 7. Look at the bright light. Squint if needed. 8. Always be connected with your life’s purpose, it’s usually one that makes you feel blissfully alive. 9. Make sure you’re never the reason someone feels bad. 10. Hang in there. Have faith that you’re on your way to better days. 11. Take a break. You can get back to the real world later. Hazel Rodriguez Nico Salinas

I celebrated my birthday yesterday! 25 things I learned in my most recent trip around the sun. 1. Circumstances are neutral  2. Thoughts produce feelings  3. Nobody knows what they’re doing  4. The hardest part is to take the first step 5. Getting sriracha in your eye hurts 👀 6. Love gives life meaning and happiness 7. There are many kinds of love. Brotherly, romantic, and unconditional love are a few 8. Humans are meant to be creative 9. Dramatic changes don’t last 10. Good habits compounded over many days is the key to change 11. Chick Fil A points are valuable 😂 12. More often than not people don’t intend to be mean 13. The people that are mean are crying for help 14. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness  15. Tearing others down makes every situation worse 16. Building others’ confidence will lead to success 17. Credit card companies are patiently waiting for you to mess up  18. Financial peace is worth every the effort 19. Take time to identify the life you want to live 20. It’s thrilling to figure out what you want and chase it relentlessly 21. Doing what everybody else is doing is exhausting 22. Income and worth have nothing to do with each other 23. Failure only happens when you give up 24. Even 10 minutes in the sun will change your day 25. Family walks are underrated

Choose Your Struggle As I’ve celebrated my 25th birthday this year, I’m both amazed and reflective on how quickly time has flown. It feels like just yesterday I was 18, and the journey of growth and learning has been significant. One key realization is that life isn’t about avoiding struggle; it’s about choosing the ones that bring you closer to your goals and aspirations. Taking risks can be scary, but living with regret is harder. Maintaining health takes effort, but illness is even more challenging. Setting boundaries and saying no can be tough, but trying to please everyone is even more exhausting. Following your passion can be demanding, but staying in your comfort zone can be even more limiting. The choices we make reveal our true strength and courage. Embrace the ones that align with what matters to you, and you’ll discover your own resilience and purpose.

| 36 Times Around the Sun | As I celebrate my 36th birthday, I find myself reflecting on the lessons that have brought the most joy, peace, and love into my life. Some of those lessons are found within these five books that have shaped who I am today: 1. The Bible: This is my daily compass, guiding me through every season. It’s an act of faith and worship, a source of strength that never grows old. Each time I read it, I find new meaning that speaks to the present chapter of my life. 2. The Secret: “Ask and you shall receive.” This book changed how I view life, helping me understand the power of vision, manifestation, and gratitude. Positivity attracts positivity—it’s truly a choice and a mindset. The more you give, the more you receive. Simple, yet profound principles to live by. 3. A Purpose Driven Life: On my 4th read of this one! This book is a guide to recenter our “why.” It challenges us to live a purpose-driven life, unlocking ways to do so. 4. The Four Agreements: So simple, yet so powerful. Be impeccable with your word. Don’t take things personally. Don’t make assumptions. Always do your best. 5. Becoming Supernatural: A recent addition to my reading list, and one I’m finding hard to put down! Dr. Joe Dispenza shows how we all have the potential to tap into extraordinary abilities and transcend our limitations. It’s both eye-opening and inspiring. Every birthday is a moment to reflect—on how far we’ve come, where we’re headed, and what we’re grateful for in the present moment. It’s a time to celebrate what was, what is, and what’s yet to come. As I look forward to this next year, I pray for abundance in business, health for my family, and opportunities to give more, do more, and be more than I ever imagined. Cheers to being one year wiser!

Today is my 28th birthday.   What I’ve learned from my 20’s.   1.     Do the hard thing, it’s better to say “oh well than what if” 2.     There are front door friends and back door friends. 3.     The keys are always in your pocket. 4.     Water & an early bedtime fix a number of issues. 5.     You need a supportive partner or no partner at all.  6.     Work hard, play harder. 7.     Safety comes from you. 8.     You are your greatest investment.  9.     If you don’t ask, you don’t get.  10.  Your only real barrier is you. 11.  What matters most is family, friends, & health.  12.  What is meant for you will never pass you by. 13.  Good things take time.  14.  You cannot be late for your own life.  15.  Double or triple booking isn’t worth it. 16.  A short break from life every 6 weeks is necessary. 17.  Say what’s on your chest, honesty pays.  18.  Being kind does not mean having no boundaries.  19.  The good old days are now. 20.  Celebrate every win. 21.  Romanticise your life, it is your greatest story. 22.   Comparison is boring.  23.  Dance when your favourite song comes on, no matter where you are.  24.  Mind gym is just as important as THE gym. 25.  Do your health check-ups: Doctors, Gynae, Dentist, Physio etc. 26.  Water your plants once a week. 27.  The 80/20 rule is no joke.  28.  Don’t let fear hold you back.   Every year is a gift, make the most of your journey around the sun.   What would you add? +++ Featuring a French themed bday drinks. 🥐 🇨🇵 🥖

It’s 27th June. And thank you for all the Love. Birthdays for me are all about reflecting on the past, enjoying the present and setting an intention for the future. So here goes! It's been a year of growth, filled with discovering blind spots, overcoming failures, and celebrating victories. Here are my top three moments of epiphany and some notes to self: Embrace Your Fragility: No matter how strong and sorted you think you are, life has a way of revealing your fragile and weak spots. These humbling moments make you reflect and think, "Wait, what? I wasn't ready for this!" But with each of these moments comes growth, teaching us to be kinder, more empathetic, and more patient. Humor is Everything: Humor truly is the name of the game. There's nothing it can't solve, and having a few partners in crime to laugh with during the stickiest situations is invaluable. Humor is the best support you can give or receive. Life, work, and setbacks are much easier to handle when taken lightly. No More Shortcuts: Taking shortcuts used to be my second nature, and I took pride in it. Recently, I've realized that the strongest foundation comes from taking the harder, longer path. It's about building something solid, not a house of cards. Here's to another year of growth, more laughter, and more resilience! 🌟 #BirthdayReflection #EmbraceTheJourney #HumorHeals #NoShortcuts

Tonight, we are celebrating my oldest son’s 18th birthday with friends and family. Everything is ready, tables set and catering confirmed. Trying to finish my speech, I was reflecting on how much has changed since I turned 18. The internet, for one, has transformed education and work. Social media has changed how we interact. Our society is much more affluent and opportunities greater than ever before. Yet, when asking my 96 year old grandmother what it was like living through all the changes in her lifetime from 1927 to now, she said : “People are the same. Things change, conditions change. But people do not change, we are the same”. Perhaps the experiences and learnings we have had in our lives are still relevant for the next generation? I think my advice for Simon this evening will be something like this: - When life smiles at you: Get the most of each moment. Savor the joy. Hunt for silver linings and small as well as big moments of joy. We are wired to remember and focus on the bad stuff. Practice collecting the good stuff too. - When life hits hard (and it will): Always remember you have a choice. Sometimes not in what happens to you but always in how you respond to it. In what you do with the adversity that will come at some point. In what you allow to define you life. - When in doubt: Life is full of choices, small and large. When you do not know what to do, ask yourself what your future self in 3,5,10 years would have liked you to do. What will make your future self proud. Do that. - Be kind. To others and to your self. Be kind generous and forgiving. What would you say? Which words would you give your 18years old to take with them into their adult lives? And is our advice still relevant…?