Remember March 15th, 2020? The day the US shut down. Just writing this brings up that uneasy feeling, the old pandemic panic bubbling up again. That day, I knew it in my gut—our little family’s life was about to change forever. I was at home with my sweet newborn son, barely 3 weeks old, and my 21-month-old daughter. My plan? Go back to work after maternity leave. I had just been promoted to Marketing Director at a tech startup a few months before. It felt like everything was on track. But suddenly, everything was off-track. Deep down, I knew going back to work wasn’t right for me—not then. None of the alternatives felt right, either. So, I did what a lot of working parents, especially working moms, did at the beginning of the pandemic. With trembling hands and a racing heart, I called my boss and told him I wouldn’t be coming back. Not for the foreseeable future. Then, I had a little cry. But after that, I picked myself up, rolled up my sleeves, and got to work in my new role: CEO of our family. 🧺 I invented lunch picnics ➡️ Instead of brainstorming creative email campaigns 🛝 I scouted every playground and park in the greater Philly area ➡️ Instead of traveling to trade shows 🥦 I bribed my kids into eating their veggies ➡️ Instead of negotiating budgets with our CEO I’d love to say it was all sunshine and rainbows, but it wasn’t. I witnessed every tantrum, every blowout, every nap strike. Some days, I probably cried more than my kids. But it felt right. For now. Every now and then, I’d catch myself daydreaming about my old work life. I missed the hustle of launching marketing campaigns, the brainstorming for product launches, the rush of finding the perfect wording for an email. Going back to my full-time job still wasn’t an option. It was 2021, and things were far from normal. Then, out of the blue, I got a call from an old business acquaintance. They needed help with a product launch. Could I help? I was so excited I probably would have paid them to let me! (Obviously, I didn’t tell them that 😉) And just like that, one client led to another. That’s when I realized... I could do this for the rest of my life. Now, I get to strategize over marketing plans and campaigns with the best clients in the world while still being there for my kids whenever I want. Dare I say, I got the best of both worlds. Sure, I may no longer carry the fancy title of Marketing Director. But maybe it’s time for a promotion. Fractional CMO has a nice ring to it, don’t you think? What were some of your favorite unexpected moments during the pandemic?
My unexpected moment due to the pandemic was that it forced me to take inventory of my life. Did I want to return to commuting 2 hours each way? Did I want to miss all school activities? Or did I want to change things once and for all. Taking a leap of faith is scary but I think it's worse to remain stuck.
Such a relatable story! The pandemic shifted life in ways none of us expected, and it's amazing how you've found the balance between work and family. At PlayShifu, we’ve seen how parents everywhere embraced new roles and moments with their kids while navigating the uncertainty. Your journey from Marketing Director to CEO of the family—and now a Fractional CMO—is truly inspiring! 💼👶 Finding the best of both worlds is no small feat. Here's to all the superparents who made it work, one day at a time! 🙌 #ParentingWins