Ever Had a Moment When Someone’s Gratitude Just Stops You in Your Tracks? Last week, something happened a couple of times that got me thinking about how impactful acknowledgment and gratitude can be. Now, I’m not usually one to share personal wins (because who needs another “look at me” post?), but I’m going to indulge for a second… One instance was at work. A senior leader in a contract I’m working on took a moment to acknowledge my contributions, highlighting the impact I’m having on the team. No big fanfare, just a few words of recognition. And honestly? It had a huge effect. It felt amazing. Then, the next day, I’m cycling with my kids over the weekend. As kids tend to do, they zoom ahead, stopping to chat to an elderly lady on the street. To my surprise, she congratulated me for providing my kids with a "congratulations on giving you kids such a wonderful start in life" and how much she loved talking to them. (I had to double-check that she was talking about my kids—I'm still a little baffled!) The point is: both instances had an unexpected impact on me. And the thing that struck me most wasn’t just the gratitude…it was the acknowledgment. Someone saw something I was doing and took the time to say something. No one asked them to. It was unsolicited, and it completely brightened my day. Here’s the kicker: In our busy lives, especially as career-driven parents, we often forget to acknowledge the impact we have on those around us. The truth is, in the midst of balancing work, family, and everything in between, it’s easy to overlook the power of simple gratitude. When we express gratitude, it brings us into the present. Acknowledging the effort or impact someone else is having not only uplifts them, but it shifts our own perspective as well. Now, I know this isn’t exactly “British” (we’re not known for going around giving high-fives and public compliments). It can feel awkward, a little uncomfortable even. But when that gratitude comes from a genuine place? It can be transformative. So, here's my challenge to you: Next time you feel grateful for something someone is doing, whether at work, with your family, or in your personal life…don’t just feel it…Acknowledge it…Tell them. Whether it’s a colleague, a partner, a family member, or even a random stranger who takes the time to make your day, don’t hold back. Because authentic gratitude is powerful. And when you give it, you might just make someone’s day a little brighter…and get a little brighter yourself in the process. Have an awesome day. #ExecutiveCoaching #CareerDrivenParents #WorkLifeBalance #Gratitude
Poignant insight and advice Alex. Grateful for you brother. 😀
Coaching for Adventurous Living. Surfing, Drum-loving Dad of 2
2wJoanna Harrison & Lynsey Marsh, thanks for the kind words x