To the new-hire executive: Trashing your predecessor is a cheap win. You're under pressure to prove yourself. You’re surrounded by new colleagues giving you the dish on the person you replaced. Your new confidant drops that tasty bait - “They didn't do it right.” You want to pile on, “Of course it bombed. You can't do it that way. You do it THIS way.” Check yourself. Your predecessor is not in the room to speak for themselves. You don’t know the puzzle they were solving for. You weren’t there. Given the exact same circumstances, you might have made the exact same decisions. Here’s a true story from back in the day. My employee escalated on a peer from another team. He got the peer's VP and me on the phone, and started to unload. The VP bodyslammed us for not inviting the peer to the discussion to give their side of the story. That stuck with me. After a while I started a new job and heard a lot of spice about my predecessor “Sam.” Name changed, naturally. Sam apparently should have done a lot of things that weren't done, and shouldn’t have done a lot of the things that were. It reminded me of that VP's lesson. So, I reached out to Sam and asked if we could chat. Guess what. There were good reasons for everything Sam did. At my next job, I reached out to my new Sam. Now it’s part of my personal onboarding process. I meet some really smart people this way. There are people in a seat today that perhaps I once held. If you ever want to talk, I’m here for it. #AsAManager #Leadership
Spot on - and solid advice. (Hope all is well friend!)
Building relationships in business is a two-way street. When we judge past decisions without understanding context, we miss valuable learning opportunities. I've found this especially true when reaching out to potential partners - what initially looked like "wrong" approaches often turned out to be well-thought-out strategies once I took time to understand their perspective.
Thank you Aaron Ballew, PhD for sharing this. I think it takes a lot of self-restraint to not pile on. But it’s 100% the right thing to do. Grateful to have you as our marketing leader, and appreciate your cool-headed approach in a number of situations — including this one.
Great perspective when starting a new role...And also just generally, in life -- listen to both sides of the story.
Well said. I wish our public sector leaders would also take this advice.
Wow. Interesting post. Seems like good advice.
#values #intellectualhonesty #longgame #humility
really good advice!
Principal Campaign Manager at Calendly
1moSuch a great post and healthy point of view to take when starting somewhere new