Real Success Goes Beyond Titles: Reflections from my many conversations & cohorts
Over the past months, I have had the privilege to volunteer time with phenomenal groups of women-typically cohorts of driven & deeply aspirational leaders and entrepreneurs. Our time together wasn’t just about sharing stories; it was about creating a space where we could be open, #authentic, and #safe. It was powerful, profound, and at times, painfully relatable.
In our discussions, we uncovered a truth that too many women know firsthand: the challenges women face in the workplace are real, and especially pronounced at senior levels.
#Misogyny is real. So is discrimination. Success can often look seamless from the outside, but for many of us, it’s a daily act of navigating #landmines of compromise, facing off with subtle (and not-so-subtle) #biases, and dealing with behaviors that attempt to undermine our confidence — #gaslighting, narcissism, and endless #politics. It’s not just about excelling in performance but also about navigating the insecurities and discomfort #confident #women can unknowingly stir in the workplace.
Despite the strides women have made, our conversations kept circling back to one point: there is so much more work to be done.
We must keep speaking up & standing tall. Because our efforts aren't only for ourselves; they’re for all the women out there who are grappling with self-doubt, apologizing for their #ambition, or shrinking themselves to fit into environments that don’t see them for all that they are.
I could resonate with so many of these struggles. After more than two decades in the workplace and building businesses, I’ve dealt with bias, intimidation, and politics. I’ve taken the blows and still turned up the next day—because the #purpose is greater than any obstacle.
What I can share from my journey is this:
1. If there’s no #equality without a fight, then fight we must.
2. Respect is earned, and it comes through #tenacity, hard work, and staying unapologetically true to yourself.
3. Be clear on your non-negotiables—the #values that define who you are... beyond any title.
4. Stay #curious and always hungry to learn. Let no one else’s insecurities or toxicity dim your drive or determine your worth.
The power of a support network of purpose driven men, women and others like these is pure GOLD! Because these are the people who see you beyond the title, the accolades, and the #success—they see YOU for the person you truly are. They are there when things get tough, and they’re ready to stand by your side.
So to every woman and person out there fighting their fight: never give up. Be #real, be #bold, and remember—you are building a legacy for those who will come after you.
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