The ParenT(w)een Connection

Does this sound like anyone you know? Your teen shuts down, your partner gets defensive, and your team avoids tough conversations. The problem isn’t what you’re saying—it’s how safe they feel to respond. The Problem: When people don’t feel emotionally safe, they stop engaging. At home, this looks like a distant teen or a spouse who avoids deeper conversations. At work, it looks like a disengaged team or employees who don’t offer solutions. The good news? Emotional safety isn’t a mystery—you can create it with intentional actions. The Solution: Here’s a simple framework from the “Create a Safe Place” Foundation of CONNECTION Coaching that you can start using today: Pause Before Reacting: Whether your teen says something triggering or an employee shares critical feedback, pause. Take a breath before you respond to ensure your tone and words reflect openness, not judgment. Acknowledge Their Feelings: Use reflective statements like “I can see why you’d feel that way” or “That sounds really frustrating.” This helps the other person feel understood and validated. Ask Open-Ended Questions: Shift from giving advice or criticism to asking questions like, “Can you tell me more about what’s going on?” or “How do you see this situation?” This invites them to share instead of shutting down. Or, simply, "Tell me more." Avoid Fixing Right Away: Resist the urge to jump in with solutions, even if you think you know what’s best. Let them finish expressing themselves before offering guidance or next steps. Then ask, 'Are you looking for an ear or a solution?' Why This Works: These steps signal to others that they are seen, heard, and valued—key ingredients for emotional safety. When people feel safe, they’re more likely to open up, share ideas, and engage meaningfully. Try It Today: Pick one relationship where communication feels strained. Use this framework during your next conversation and notice the shift. It’s often the smallest adjustments that lead to the biggest breakthroughs. I'd love to know which one you try and how it pans out! If you want to go deeper in creating safety and building connection, let’s talk. Our CONNECTION Coaching Program equips you with tools like this to transform your relationships—both at home and at work. #Leadership #ParentingTips #EmotionalSafety #ConnectionMatters #CoachingForGrowth

Are you a parent (or parentpreneur) who ends up feeling kinda like my hair looks when you try to have a meaningful conversation with your t(w)eens (or clients)? If so, you should join me for at least one - or even all! - of the ten **FREE** mini-workshops I'm hosting between now and early January. Each one will focus on one of The ParenTween Connection's Foundations of CONNECTION: * Create a Safe Place * Observe * Nonjudgment * Nod (& Smile!) * Explore * Challenge Your Truths * Take Your Time * Innovate * Own Your Own Story * Nurture The first one is tomorrow at 5PM ET/2PM PT. Even if you can't join in person, I'm happy to get you the link to the recording after we're done. https://lnkd.in/ebe_MreF

Let's Talk CONNECTION. Today in the US (and beyond, even), many of us feel more disconnected than ever before. We can't change what other people believe by blocking them, unfriending them, or otherwise creating more of an echo chamber. But we CAN control how we choose to show up. We CAN choose to generate CONNECTION. We've said kinda jokingly at times that world peace starts at home, but really? That's not a joke. The more CONNECTION we can create in our homes, in our workplaces, in our communities, the more we can work toward world peace. We're hosting a series of workshops based on the Foundations of CONNECTION: Create a Safe Place Observe Nonjudgment Nod (& Smile!) Explore Challenge Your Truths Take Your Time Innovate Own Your Own Story Nurture We'd love for you to join us for any or all of them. They're a precursor to a group coaching program that will launch in January that is ideal for parentpreneurs - parents of teens & tweens who are also entrepreneurs, or are in roles at work where they're in management or responsible for generating revenue. We can only control ourselves and how we show up. Will you join me to share ideas about how we can create more CONNECTION together? Here's the link for all the upcoming dates: https://lnkd.in/ebe_MreF

Who is CONNECTION Coaching for? It’s for Parentpreneurs feeling torn between scaling their business and building a strong relationship with their kids. You're showing up for your business, but are you truly present with your family? The challenge is balancing both. The solution? CONNECTION. This program is designed to teach you how to create deeper bonds at home and in business by fostering safe spaces and intentional moments of connection. You'll learn practical tools to strengthen your relationships and motivate your team. Why join now? Imagine starting 2025 with the tools to not only grow your business but also reconnect with your kids in meaningful ways. Spots are filling quickly—now’s the time to take action and secure your future success. Curious? Join the CONNECTION Challenge this Thursday at 7 PM ET/4 PM PT and start applying strategies immediately! https://lnkd.in/df_ZdD2e #Parentpreneur #FamilyFirst #WorkLifeHarmony #BusinessGrowth #TeamEngagement #LeadershipDevelopment #EntrepreneurshipJourney #IntentionalLiving #BusinessStrategy #ParentingJourney

Why CONNECTION Coaching? Because you're a Parentpreneur who feels like the time spent on business growth is causing distance between you and your kids. You’re building something great at work, but is your family connection suffering in the process? The challenge is staying emotionally present in both areas of your life. The solution? CONNECTION. In this brand new coaching program, you’ll learn how to show up more effectively for your family and your business by creating intentional, meaningful connection. Stronger family bonds lead to less stress, which translates into better business performance. And better business performance leads to less stress, which translates into stronger family bonds. Why this program? It offers a blend of personal and professional growth, helping you transform how you lead at home and in the office. You’ll walk away with tools you can start using right away. Why join NOW, even though the coaching won't start 'til January? January feels far away, but a spot today locks in your commitment to six months of growth—both as a leader and as a parent. Ready to sample the impact of CONNECTION? Join the CONNECTION Challenge this Thursday at 7 PM ET/4 PM PT. https://lnkd.in/e4bFCND9 #Parentpreneur #FamilyTimeMatters #BusinessSuccess #LeadershipSkills #EntrepreneurLife #WorkLifeBalance #IntentionalParenting #TeamSuccess #ClientLoyalty #ParentingAndBusiness

Who is CONNECTION Coaching NOT for? It’s not for Parentpreneurs looking for superficial tips or a quick productivity boost. If you want long-term success in both family and business, keep reading. This program is for those ready to dig deeper and build lasting CONNECTION. The challenge? Feeling emotionally distant from your kids while your business demands your attention. The solution? CONNECTION Coaching. You’ll discover strategies to nurture deeper relationships with your family, while also fostering stronger bonds with employees and clients. It’s not about choosing between family and business—it’s about making both work better together. Why now? CONNECTION Coaching begins in January, but momentum starts when you commit. Make 2025 the year you feel more connected to your family and business than ever before. Want to see how CONNECTION can impact your life? Join the CONNECTION Challenge this Thursday at 7 PM ET/4 PM PT and leave with actionable steps to create immediate change. https://lnkd.in/e4bFCND9 #Parentpreneur #BusinessLeadership #FamilyConnection #TeamBuilding #ClientRelationships #PersonalGrowth #EntrepreneurshipJourney #BusinessMindset #WorkLifeBalance #StrongerTogether

Who is CONNECTION Coaching ideal for? Parentpreneurs looking to improve their relationship with their kids while growing their business. Parentpreneurs often feel disconnected from their kids—especially teens—due to the demands of running a business. You probably hear about 'work-life balance' and wonder what you ‘should’ be doing differently. What’s the key to stronger relationships with your kids AND growing your business? CONNECTION. That’s where CONNECTION Coaching comes in. You’ll learn strategies to create intentional moments with your family and team, even with a busy schedule. A little forethought goes a long way! CONNECTION Coaching debuts mid-January 2025. It may feel far off, but if you see how CONNECTION will benefit you both personally and professionally, you'll want to reserve your spot soon. (Who wouldn’t want the 2024 tax deduction for coaching that impacts your business AND family?) Want a preview? Join the CONNECTION Challenge this Thursday at 7 PM ET/4 PM PT. You’ll gain strategies you can use NOW for positive results in just weeks! https://lnkd.in/e4bFCND9 #Parentpreneur #FamilyBusiness #Entrepreneurship #BusinessGrowth #Leadership #WorkLifeBalance #TeamBuilding #ClientRelations #BusinessDevelopment #ExecutiveLeadership #FamilyValues #BusinessSuccess #FamilyLeadership #EntrepreneurMindset #SmallBusinessGrowth #ProductivityTips #BusinessStrategy #BusinessRelationships #ParentingAndLeadership #BusinessGrowthTips

“I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way (s)he handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.”– Maya Angelou

It's almost the end of September...that means we're somewhere around the end of the first quarter of the school year. How are your kids doing? If they're struggling, lacking study skills may be the culprit. Check out this convo w/Study Skills specialist Jessyka Coulter. Listen to the whole conversation in comments.

The #1 Reason Teens Don't Love to Learn Are you puzzled by your teen's lack of enthusiasm for learning? This eye-opening workshop will reveal the primary reason behind this common challenge and equip you with essential knowledge to help your teen rediscover the joy of learning.In this session, parents will gain valuable insights into: 1. **The Learning-Love Connection**: Understand why teens who don't know HOW to learn often struggle to love learning. 2. **Demystifying the Study Process**: Explore the crucial link between effective studying and successful learning. 3. **Essential Study Skills**: Discover the 12 fundamental study skills that every student from middle school through college needs to master.By the end of this workshop, you'll be better equipped to support your teen's academic journey and foster a genuine love for learning. Join us to unlock your teen's full learning potential and pave the way for their future success! Part 2, exclusively for members of The ParenTween Village, will take a deeper dive into 'The Most Important Study Skill Your Teen Needs.' Not a member yet? Join us: https://lnkd.in/eDKQebyu