When you are starting out, be authentic and use your uniqueness to stand out. But equally important is to learn from the best. Watch, observe and understand what makes some people shine amongst their peers. If you do that, pretty soon you will be the one others will look up to in trying to connect. But always be authentic. It’s a busy world out there and everybody is looking for the spotlight. Find your own style, your own space and you will never be uncomfortable about it.

When I’m networking with peers who outshine me, I focus on being genuine and bringing my true self to the table. I make it a point to listen actively, ask thoughtful questions, and share experiences that reflect who I am. It’s not about trying to compete—it’s about connecting authentically. I’ve found that people remember those who are curious, humble, and bring a unique perspective. Just be yourself—confidence with a touch of humility goes a long way!

When networking with peers who seem to outshine you, the key is to shift your focus inward. Start by working on yourself and embracing your true, authentic self. Avoid the trap of comparison, your value lies in your unique talents and gifts, not in measuring up to someone else’s achievements. Take the time to understand what you bring to the table and strive to become the best version of yourself. When you focus on self-improvement and personal growth, your confidence and authenticity will naturally make you stand out. The goal shouldn’t be to outshine others but to let your own light shine brighter through your genuine efforts. This is how you create a lasting and meaningful impact in any networking situation. #ThinkersAtWork

From my experience, I consider that networking with peers is an opportunity to complement each other without fear that one shines more than the other. We always have something to learn from people and take everything with an open mind and from the humility that each peer or colleague shines because they stand out in something different from us. We must always see it as an opportunity.

On thing I have found useful is that don’t try to over shine anybody, put your points with honesty and clarity without trying to impress anyone. Your body language should not come across as someone who is not sure what he or she is talking about.

One thing that i found always helpful is be an active listener and asking explorative questions. Be genuinely curious about his/her perspective.

I dressed up my wedding dress, a beautiful one. Most of the networkers spoke to me and we exchanged ideas about business. Even I had who walked with me the way.