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    Have Serious Fun: And 12 Other Principles to Make Each Day Count
    Have Serious Fun: And 12 Other Principles to Make Each Day Count
    Have Serious Fun: And 12 Other Principles to Make Each Day Count
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    Have Serious Fun: And 12 Other Principles to Make Each Day Count

    By Jim Burns, Ph.D and Gary Chapman

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    • Personal Growth

    • Relationships

    • Accountability

    • Legacy

    • Leadership

    • Mentorship

    • Self-Discovery

    • Overcoming Adversity

    • Facing Mortality

    • Coming of Age

    • Mentor

    • Hero's Journey

    • Redemption

    • Mentor Figure

    • Spiritual Journey

    • Time Management

    • Self-Improvement

    • Life Lessons

    • Delegation

    • Communication

    About this ebook

    After hearing the words no one wants to hear--"you have cancer"--Jim Burns set out to articulate the most important principles for a life well lived and now shares them with you as a collection of essential truths for a healthy, balanced, and successful life. 

    What's truly important for leading a life well lived? After being diagnosed with cancer and facing his mortality, prolific author and family-life expert Jim Burns learned what it really means to live a meaningful life from the perspective and practical wisdom only gained from facing death. Now cancer free, those same life-changing lessons continue to guide and enrich Jim's faith, work, and relationships in immeasurable ways. With his conversational style and heartwarming and entertaining stories, Jim brilliantly distills that hard-earned wisdom into 13 simple yet powerful life principles you can put into practice today. 

    Jim will help you learn how to:

    • Break the cycle of being overcommitted and underconnected once and for all
    • Make family the priority you want it to be with an action plan that will nurture your closest relationships
    • Embrace the discomfort of discipline and avoid the pain of regret
    • Incorporate the vital element of fun in your life for connection and relief in even the toughest times
    • Train your mind in reflexive gratitude to rise above negative circumstances. 

    Don't wait any longer. Let these principles guide you into deeper joy, more purpose, and better connection--and start truly living today.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherZondervan
    Release dateJul 27, 2021
    ISBN9780310362609
    Author

    Jim Burns, Ph.D

    Jim Burns has escrito numerosos libros para jóvenes, líderes y padres, y es un veterano en el ministerio juvenil. Jim es también un destacado orador en eventos de entrenamiento de Especialidades Juveniles y además es el fundador del Ministerio HomeWord, cuyo enfoque es ayudar a familias a encontrar esperanza en la Palabra de Dios.

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      Have Serious Fun - Jim Burns, Ph.D

      Jim faced mortality with his cancer and was reminded that only a few things are important to make a life worthy. He has shared them here, and they are a gift. Thank you, Jim.

      —Dr. Henry Cloud, psychologist; New York Times bestselling author

      A lot of parenting books produce anxiety. They tell you that you’re just not measuring up. This is one of the few books that will relieve your fears. Delightful, practical, and at times profound, Have Serious Fun gives you a roadmap to a better you and a better family.

      —Carey Nieuwhof, author, speaker, podcaster

      When many of us are bogged down by fear and exhaustion because of the pandemic, social division, and unrest, along with just plain anxiety and uncertainty, Dr. Jim Burns gives us a necessary reminder: have fun. Play. Be silly. Unplug. Be thankful. Focus. Have serious fun and the twelve other principles in this book almost feel alien in this time of heightened worry and fear, but this is exactly when we need Jim’s message the most.

      —Albert Tate, pastor, Fellowship Monrovia

      After devouring Have Serious Fun by my dear friend Jim Burns, I improved my schedule and relationship choices the very next day. Unlike any book I’ve read recently, this book will immediately shape your most important decisions and set you on a better trajectory in your life, relationships, and faith.

      —Kara Powell, PhD, chief of leadership formation, Fuller Seminary; executive director, Fuller Youth Institute; coauthor, Three Big Questions That Change Every Teenager

      All of us struggle with missing out on life for any number of reasons: stresses, relationship problems, losses, and health issues. We become distracted and anxious and obsess on our challenges, and then wonder where our lives went. Yet the Bible teaches us to number our days, because there are a finite number of them. Jim Burns helps show us how to live fully and right now, in a way that will bring joy and meaning, even in the midst of challenges. Highly recommended.

      —John Townsend, PhD, author, New York Times bestselling Boundaries; founder, Townsend Institute for Leadership and Counseling

      Jim Burns is a gift. Over the years, his upbeat personality, wise counsel, and grounded insights have added incredible value to my personal growth, my marriage to Leslie, and my professional work. That’s why I’m thrilled to recommend this power-packed book of legacy lessons. From the first chapter to the last, you’ll find ready-made applications to your life, written in Jim’s trademark easy-to-read style. Don’t miss out on this valuable message.

      —Les Parrott, PhD, author, New York Times #1 bestseller Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts

      When you spend time with Jim Burns, you quickly realize that he’s someone you want to hang out with—a lot. So many of my favorite conversations include Jim around the table, and so much of what I’ve learned in life comes from his influence. What’s made him such a relatable friend shows up quite clearly in these pages. He reminds us that we can take our fun seriously, but that serious can be fun too.

      —Reggie Joiner, founder/CEO, Orange/reThink

      This powerful volume is filled with invaluable insights and advice about living the kind of abundant life Jesus envisions for all of his people.

      —Jim Daly, president, Focus on the Family

      Have Serious Fun is like the Magna Carta for a life without regrets. Jim’s thirteen principles leave us the legacy of an elegant rhythm we can all dance to.

      —Dr. Wayne Cordeiro, New Hope Church and College

      As a fellow cancer survivor, I read Jim Burns’s latest book with great expectancy. It did not disappoint. The book is chock full of essential principles for living life well, along with practical lessons for health, balance, and success.

      —Pat Williams, NBA Hall of Fame; author, Revolutionary Leadership

      Don’t let the title fool you. This book is about so much more than fun. This is perhaps Jim’s greatest book because it is jammed full of wisdom that is life changing, especially—for me—the thank therapy chapter. I traveled with Jim and heard him speak on this and it has become part of my mood-elevation program. Get this book and read it to your kids more than once. Jim has serious integrity. He is at the top of my most admired man list. You will not be disappointed in the take-away value of this book.

      —Steve Arterburn, national radio host, New Life Live; bestselling author

      Perhaps Jim’s best and most important book. Priceless insight, easy to read, super inspiring, deeply thought provoking, and filled with practical ways to experience God’s best for your life. I highly recommend it.

      —Chip Ingram, founder and CEO, Living on the Edge; author, Yes! You Really Can Change

      I’ve heard wisdom defined as skill in everyday living. By that definition, this book is filled with incredible wisdom. These are important lessons that each one of us needs to learn and relearn throughout our lives. What a great gift from a trusted friend.

      —Bob Lepine, cohost, FamilyLife Today

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      Copyright © 2021 by Jim Burns

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      Author photo: Michelle Kim

      Interior design: Sara Colley

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      For my daughters,

      Christy Meredith

      Rebecca Joy

      Heidi Michelle

      And the legacy continues.

      CONTENTS

      Cover

      Title Page

      Copyright

      Foreword by Gary Chapman

      Preface

      Thank You

      1. Have Serious Fun

      2. Attitude Is Everything

      3. Practice Thank Therapy

      4. If the Devil Can’t Make You Bad, He’ll Make You Busy

      5. Practice Positive Adaptability

      6. It’s the Pain of Discipline or the Pain of Regret

      7. Family Matters More Than Work

      8. Find Replenishing Relationships

      9. Seek Accountability for Effectiveness

      10. Communicate with AWE

      11. Set Excellent Goals and Create Workable Habits

      12. Delegate to Focus on What You Do Well

      13. Glorify and Enjoy God While Serving Him Forever

      Appendix

      Questions for Personal Reflection or Group Discussion

      Notes

      FOREWORD

      Most of us would like to leave the world a better place than we found it. Most of us would also like to have fun in the process. If these desires resonate with you, this book is for you. When I read the subtitle, And Twelve Other Principles to Make Each Day Count, I knew that this book would be practical and that it would address real-life issues. I was not disappointed. Each chapter helped me reflect on my life and ask, What can I learn from this chapter that will make me a better person?

      I have known Jim Burns for many years. He has invested his life in counseling, speaking, and writing about how to have good relationships. I have always admired the practicality of his writing. In many ways, Have Serious Fun is a legacy book for Jim. When the cancer diagnosis came, Jim accepted the reality that none of us wants to think about, but which all of us must face: death is a part of life. He stared death in the face and then survived, hopefully for many more years. Anyone who has had the unwelcome guest of a disease that often leads to death can identify with the sobering effect it has on one’s perspective. Things that once seemed important fade in significance, and we focus on the things that are really important. We want to make each day count, and we still want to have fun. This book will help you accomplish this goal—without the trauma of a life-threatening disease.

      Our lives are never static. We are either growing or regressing. We never stand still. The older I get, the more I reflect on the legacy I am leaving

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