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It's Mental Health Mondays! 🧠 I've been reflecting lately on how we've created a false narrative whereby life feels like a relentless competition. Social media has amplified this, turning even happiness into a scoreboard. Who's more successful? Who’s having more fun? Who’s “winning” at life? It’s a game no one can win because happiness isn’t a contest—it’s deeply personal, and comparison is the quickest way to lose. This hyper-individualistic race leaves us disconnected, especially when life throws its inevitable challenges our way. Lack of connection isn’t just an emotional burden; it’s a health crisis. The pressure to endure hardship alone is especially intense for men. Society tells us to “tough it out,” but the truth is, no one can—or should—navigate life’s storms in isolation. Community matters. Connection matters. The key to a fulfilling life isn’t in a string of achievements but in the thread that connects them. It’s the relationships, values, and experiences that tie our moments together into a life well-lived. That thread should guide the choices we make, not the other way around. So, how do we start? It begins with understanding what truly makes us happy—not what impresses others, but what fills us with purpose and joy. Do more of that. And don’t stop there. Extend this practice to the people in your life. Ask your friends what makes them happy. Check in with them often. Support them in chasing their version of a meaningful life. A better world starts with rebuilding the sense of community we’ve lost. We thrive together, not apart. Helping others live authentically doesn’t diminish our own happiness; it multiplies it. Life isn’t about winning. It’s about weaving a tapestry of moments that matter—to us and to those we care about. Let’s focus on the thread, not the race. Make sure you set aside time tonight to do something that makes you happy. #mentalhealthmonday