Teen Wolf Star Tyler Posey Reveals Which Costars Weren’t at His Wedding to Phem: ‘They Were Busy’

Tyler Posey is a married man — but not all of the Teen Wolf star’s castmates witnessed the special occasion.

In a new interview with The New York Post published Friday, the actor, 32, revealed who was (and wasn’t) in attendance to see him tie the knot with his new bride, Phem.

“It was just so exciting to share that with them. I love them,” Posey told the Post.

“I always have and I always will," he continued. "They were hanging with me all night and partying and dancing. And it was just such a fun experience and it just meant a lot that whoever did show up was there.”

Teen Wolf ran from 2011 to 2017. Posey played Scott McCall, a normal teen simply trying to navigate his way through high school until he was bitten by a werewolf, further complicating his chances of fitting in while also fighting crime in his hometown. 

Dylan O’Brien, who played Posey’s best friend Stiles Stilinski, wasn’t there for the ceremony. Neither was Dylan Sprayberry. 

“No Dylans. They were both busy,” Posey told the Post, adding that he would've loved to see them there.

“They were both invited, but they were busy,” he shared. 

Former castmates who could save the date were Colton Haynes, Tyler Hoechlin, JR Bourne and Khylin Rhambo.

Posey confessed that if it were up to him, more people would have been included. However, he had to “be strategic and kind of bite the bullet” because he and Phem, 28, had a small wedding. 

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He was “so touched” by those who could come, and he’s got nothing but love for those who couldn’t — even dishing about their group text thread.

While the Maid in Manhattan alum admitted “it’s hard to keep it going every day,” his favorite part is keeping in touch with his pals as they grow. 

“You get more settled into who we are as individuals and getting to share that with one another,” he said. 

Others present for the Oct. 14 wedding in Malibu included Avril Lavigne and Bella Thorne.

"We love the ocean and peacefulness. We've always thought Malibu is very calming," Posey told PEOPLE in an exclusive interview. 

The intimate wedding was held at a spiritual meditation center and was followed by a reception at Duke's Malibu in the Ocean Room.

When asked what were necessities for the big day, the couple replied, "Good music, good food, lots of dancing and at least ONE Blink-182 song!"

Four days before the nuptials, Posey celebrated his 32nd birthday. They listened to more good music as Phem gave her beau a lap dance, a seen in footage shared on social media.

“We are in awe of your magnificent heart and your pure beautiful soul,” she captioned the video. “Thank you for pushing us and inspiring us to be the best versions of ourselves.”